Congratulations on your new mattress! When it comes to pillows, preferences can be quite personal. If the Tempur Cloud causes discomfort for your ear, you might not find the horsehair pillow to be a better option.
The Tempur Cloud Pro offers excellent support and a soft, cushioned feel, creating a sensation of weightlessness as it contours to your head. You tend to feel the cradling very slighly, but still very soft on the head. In contrast, horsehair pillows are more supportive, their springiness presents itself once you remove you head and the pillow springs back to its regular shape.
The horsehair pillow doesn’t resist your head (with push back like a talalay latex or latex alternative pillow, ie malouf active dough) as you rest on it, but you will notice the presence of the fill as it compresses, causing the pillow to become firmer to the point at which it “locks in” to the weight of your presence on the pillow.
It’s a bit like comparing a firm supportive mattress to a soft, plush one.
If you prefer a soft, squishy pillow with good support, you might enjoy the @CozyPure Baa-Noodle pillow. It’s softer on the head compared to the Tempur Cloud Pro but still provides support without the bouncy push back of a solid latex pillow. The unique design of the noodles allows your head to sink in and be gently supported, offering a sensation similar to floating on a cloud, but without the bouncy rebound of solid Talalay latex.
I have made several noodle pillows of different fill amounts and combinations. Combining the noodles around the horsehair to give the pillow a softer landing with the supportiveness of the horsehair. I have combined the noodles with wool batting, and the horsehair with wool batting. All have their slight nuances to change the feel slightly.
One thing you have to pay close attention to is the loft of the pillow/s. I have found that overstuffing or under filling the pillow, changing it by more than 3/4" can cause the shoulder and upper back muscles to take notice of that change. This was a revelation that surprised me the most. A 3/4 - 1" or more change went unnoticed while sleeping, but I definitely felt it when I woke up.
What I think you may like about the latex noodles of the baa-noodle is the displacement of the noodles as you rest your head on it, will place less pressure on your ear. You barely feel this pillow under your head. The initial fill they send was much too squishy and soft for me, but adding some noodles to the pillows eventually got the loft height satisfactory, firmness for me comfortable, still maintaining that weightlessness feel.
The wool pillow covers that 45st seen here are excellent for the horsehair pillows as the cover dampens the “crunchy noise” that the horsehair can sometimes make as the hair is very course, this cover eliminates that. I sleep the most soundly on the horsehair of any material I have slept on. Like a deep uninterrupted sleep.
One thing you will notice with the horsehair, is temperature control. You feel no heat at all, like zero. You head does not feel warm at all.
The other pillows like the brooklyn bedding shredded foam, or the malouf dough are very good pillows, but you will feel the slight push back to your head. Some folks like that supportive feel in that way, others feel they are “fighting” the pillow. My wife simply loves the solid, medium firm, talalay pillow. Soft, squishy, a little pushback and hugging.
Hope this helps.
Maverick