First off, I’m so glad I found this site after buying far too many mattresses, toppers, and pillows in the last few years to try to get a comfortable night sleep. I’ve realized how little I knew and am so grateful for experts like you helping inform buyers.
Now, my current situation is I made the mistake of buying a Queen Size Simmons Legend Firm Mattress (only a year ago) that feels both too firm for my low BMI and exclusive side sleeping scoliosis/hip pain ridden self (maybe caused by the mattresses) and also has an annoying ridge in the middle (I share the bed with my SO who also finds it uncomfortable but is far less picky). My question is should I try adding a 3" latex topper to soften things up OR should I cut my losses and get an all latex bed because maybe theres something wrong with the underlying support layers of the Simmons bed?
My inclination is I’ve never tried latex so a topper would allow me to at least see how I like it but I’d hate to spend the money on it just to later be unsatisfied as the ridge comes back and maybe other problems persist (at that point I’d be tempted to remove the Simmons comfort layers all together and just use the springs with the latex topper). FYI I’ve tried memory foam and don’t like the sinking-in and hot feeling (it also did not relieve my pains).
On the other hand, we both always sleep better when we have a king size mattress at hotels (we’re 5’10" and 6’3" respectively) and I haven’t seen this topic discussed yet on the forum but I feel like the ridge situation would be easier to avoid with a king because (1) someone could sleep in the middle without disturbing the other person and (2) you could maybe get away with rotating the bed 90 degrees to prevent it from forming? Of course, my mattress is not flippable. A new king size latex mattress could solve that issue as well (though I guess mattress surgery on my current bed could too).
I guess I’m wondering if you agree - is a king size worth it in terms of added comfort in avoiding the ridge/body impression issue and in just having more space? and is spending the $300+ on a topper likely to be just a temporary solution? Maybe I can find a company I can try a topper from who accepts returns (a trial type situation) to make sure I like latex at all.