I’ve been lurking here for a bit and greatly appreciate the knowledge and feedback shared. Plus, folks discussing their perspectives with humility and civility. What a gem of a place! Kudos!
My husband and I are sleeping on the decades old (I know, I know), firm Serta coil mattress that we bought (used! I know, I know!) when we were young and broke. Now, we’re less young and less broke. A few weeks ago, I almost smothered my poor sweetie with my pillow when his twitches falling asleep woke me up from a dead slumber. I’ve decamped to the guest bedroom, and we (well, I) decided it was time to get a new mattress.
ME:
- 5’6", 140-145 lbs
- I try to sleep on my back, but often end up on my side
- Potential for pressure point discomfort on outsides of hips
- Prefer soft to medium
- Tend to sleep warm (I’m a 42-year old woman, I suspect this will get worse in the coming years!)
- Motion isolation/dampening is CRITICAL
HUSBAND:
- 5’11", 170-175 lbs
- Starts night on side, sometimes shifts to back
- Athletic, sometimes has a hard time “settling” at night, restless
- Prefers medium to medium-firm, cannot sleep on anything too mushy
We went to a mattress showroom yesterday. Decided we want a hybrid mattress, medium softness, with excellent motion dampening that sleeps cool (or at least doesn’t sleep warm), for no more than $2500 after taxes/shipping/etc, with a trial period (ok if there is a return fee), that feels somewhat like the mattresses described below.
The Grand Hybrid (Titanium, I think?) by Spring Air in medium was the best safe choice, but I could still feel more motion transfer than ideal, although it was hard to tell if that was the mattress base or what. It was fine. I guess I could live with it. Didn’t love it.
The Tempurpedic Hybrid ProAdapt in medium was the wildcard best choice. I really liked it for the 5 minutes I was lying on it, but I have no idea how I’d feel after multiple nights. It would either be a “you’ll pry this mattress out of my cold deads hands I love it so much” or a “I’m taking this outside and lighting it on fire I hate it so much” situation.
I’m considering the Aurora Luxe Cooling from Brooklyn Bedding.
What do you think?