My wife and I are looking for a new mattress and have fortunately stumbled upon this wonderful site. Thank you all for sharing your insights.
We gave our old mattress to a family member who just moved into a new place to help them out and instead got a Casper Wave 2 (hybrid), thinking it would be the most supportive of the lineup. It was not. We really didnt have a lot of problems with the old mattress, but since getting the new one (~45 days ago) I wake up every morning with back pain in the mid to low back. Initially pressure relief on my shoulders and hips was pretty good (side sleeping), but now not so much. My wife also notes some mild back pain. The bed itself feels like it has a lot more give than what we found in the store. We are going to return it.
I am 6’1", 180", and go to bed sleeping on my side and in the morning I often end up on my back. She is 5’3", 105lb, starts off as a side sleeper but spends most of the night on her belly. In general, I prefer firmer supportive feels, she would be happy sleeping on a marshmallow.
We’re trying to find a replacement bed, shopped around more this time, and found that we really liked a Tempurpedic and an all latex bed.
Tempurpedic: We were able to agree that we both liked the cool breeze firm model (https://www.tempurpedic.com/shop-mattresses/tempur-breeze/v/3058/) although mostly for the feel (could go either way on the cooling stuff). The firm feel on this mattress was not as unforgiving as the firm on the ProAdapt. My wife would’ve preferred the medium hybrid of the ProAdapt most (I didn’t), but she was happy with the firm cool breeze (ie-she’d like it a hair softer but is fine with the firm). That said, I’ve learned that these are good materials at poor value, and that I could try to find a local/regional retailer to sell something comparable. In order to do more online shopping/ordering/etc, I’m trying to find what’s actually in these beds to no avail. I don’t really have a sense on how I could comparison shop this model, either by figuring out the materials or something comparable based on whatever the prior iteration of this “new” line is.
Latex: By chance, we found a local retailer with a clearance Savvy Rest Serenity. It was nicely setup already, one side was med/firm/firm, the other side was soft/soft/medium, all Dunlop. The total depth is 10". I couldn’t find the ILD numbers for dunlop soft/med/firm, the website goes to pains to argue that it is uninterpretable. Regardless, I liked my side (m/f/f), it had excellent support, I felt like I was in good alignment on both my side and back. I was a little concerned that comfort may be an issue overnight with maybe some pressure on my shoulders and hips, so if I could make it just a touch more comfortable on the superficial layer, that would probably be ideal. My wife had a similar feel, noting that if it was a little softer, she’d be even happier. Regardless, we both really liked the bed, mostly because it was split and we could each do our thing. My only hesitation was that there’s no return with the sale, so if it doesn’t go well, I’m stuck with an expensive mistake (aside from a latex layer swap). I’ve since looked into SleepEZ which seemed promising, with both a satisfaction guarantee and also the layer swap offer. I was thinking about doing a Talalay Medium / Dunlop Firm / Dunlop Firm on my side, and my wife was thinking about a Talalay Soft/ Dunlop Soft / Dunlop Medium on her side, but we’re obviously very new to this and what do we know.
If it helps, we live in Atlanta and I’ve used the website to identify recommended/reputable retailers in my area. Unfortunately there’s very little opportunity to try any all latex beds aside from the above store that I already visit.
So my questions for you guys are this:
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We’re leaning towards the latex, but if not for whatever reason, what would be a reasonable way to figure out or comparison shop the tempurpedic cool breeze firm?
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From a Latex perspective, what would be an advisable setup given our experiences thus far (poor on Casper Wave 2 hybrid, I loved she liked/was OK with tempurpedic cool breeze firm, and our experience with the Savvy above)? Would it make sense to try to aim for a 9-10" mattress, and then maybe just aim for Talaly Medium for me and Talaly Soft for her on the top layer, and then Dunlop below for the next 2 layers?
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If we’re going to build something comparable to what we tried, what’s the difference in doing it at Savvy Rest versus competitors that are significantly cheaper (and notably members of this site) including SleepEZ (comes with return policy, better priced, etc), Latex Mattress Factory (no return policy on a customized build, but cheaper), or Sleeping Organic (seams well priced, displays all ILDs easily, 100$ return fee)? Is there something I’m not appreciating about why I wouldn’t do that?
Thanks for your help