I have narrowed it down to APM but not sure whether to pick the Ultimate Hybrid or Eco Sleep Hybrid. I am a side sleeper, 135lbs and love the marshmallow/cloud feel. Hubs is a back sleeper with low back pain and sometimes side sleeper (i think he would sleep side more but arm/hand falls asleep and he gets achey) 195lbs. We bought a dreamcloud premiere hybrid after we got married because my bed was much too soft for him, causing back and neck pain etc. He does okay on the new Dreamcloud and likes it as long as he sleeps on his back. I wake up often and have to flip sides and wake up achey through my arms, shoulders and hips, even with a shredded memory foam topper AND 2 inches of a soft latex topper from sleep on latex on top of the mattress.
Im wondering if the APM ultimate hybrid would be best since the zoned coils would give him the lumbar support in his back. Also wondering if with the right latex topper choice he might be able to side sleep more. I also am not sure what firmness to choose or what type of latex topper. Im assuming split would be ideal, unsure on talalay vs dunlop, even after researching and reading. Im not opposed to purchasing an additional topper to add a bit more latex on top of the 3 inch topper to maybe give him a bit more plushness over a firmer layer and me a bit more plushness over a plush layer but with a solid coil system at the core of it. Any help would be appreciated. I need to get something sorted out so that I can return this dreamcloud.