About 7 years ago I did a lot of research and ended up purchasing a queen 12" Bamboo Bliss (medium level 6) from Brooklyn Bedding. The bed was great for about 2-3 years for me. My wife still loves it and sleeps great in it. I started to have lower back issues and stopped sleeping in the bed. I actually started sleeping in a hammock, or on the couch in my basement and it completely removed the lower back pain I was having. I occasionally test out the bamboo bliss and without fail I wake up with lower back pain every time! Anyways, the downstairs hammock option has worked, but the wife and I are expecting out first child in October and I really want to be back upstairs so I have quicker access to assist with baby (She won’t let me put the hammock upstairs haha)
From my trial and error with other beds I believe I need a much firmer mattress (We were actually just on vacation last week and I was on a very firm coil mattress and I felt GREAT - the wife not so much). I prefer to sleep on my side. I can’t seem to find information on the bamboo bliss anymore. All I remember is that the topper is 3" of latex. I tried moving the bed to the floor, and its funny, both the wife and I felt it was SOFTER on the floor than on the bed frame. My question is would a firmer core/base help me out, or would a firmer topper? Also given that the wife likes the current feel/softnesss maybe I should look into some sort of split system? All the “guides” point to side sleepers needing more “cushioning” but that just doesn’t equate to my body
Edit: 5’9" and ~170lbs